Valuing a man’s contribution in a relationship goes far beyond just making him feel important. It’s about having a healthy relationship where each person is able to contribute to one another’s progress.
There are many ways a woman can add value to a man’s life that doesn’t have anything to do with money. Here are some examples:
- You’re a good listener
Good listening is an important skill in a relationship, as research has found that it can boost feelings of connectedness and help couples resolve conflicts. Being a good listener involves empathizing, serving as a mirror, and paraphrasing.
A good listener maintains eye contact and is attentive to facial expressions as well. He will nod and give auditory feedback like ‘uh huh’, ‘yes’ or ‘I see’ to encourage you to keep talking.
He’ll also refrain from interrupting you, unless it’s absolutely necessary. This is the sign that he’s truly interested in what you have to say and cares about how you feel.
- You’re a good mother
Women are often asked what it means to be a good mother. While there are many ways to be a good mother, this question is rooted in an outdated patriarchal worldview that demands women are superhuman. It’s an impossible standard and it can make women feel like they are failing even if they are working harder than they have in their lives. It is important to remember that a woman’s value is not based on how clean the house is or whether the dishes were washed, but on who she is as an individual.